Saturday, April 28, 2018

CEO SPECIAL.... Myth vs. Reality: Four Behaviors That Define Successful Leaders PART I


Myth vs. Reality: Four Behaviors That Define Successful Leaders PART I
Elena Lytkina Botelho discusses the traits that define successful CEOs.

What makes some CEOs successful while others crash and burn? The stereotypical view — often promoted in magazines and on television — is that these leaders are charismatic, armed with an Ivy League degree and larger than life. That impression is both superficial and wrong, according to Elena Lytkina Botelho and Kim Powell, consultants at ghSMART, a Chicago-based management consulting firm. After a 10-year study, Botelho, Powell, and their colleagues found that successful CEOs have four behavioral attributes that are often overlooked because they are not particularly glamorous. These CEOs make decisions quickly; they are relentlessly reliable; they excel at managing relationships; and they adapt swiftly to changing circumstances.
Botelho earlier worked for McKinsey and AIG-Brunswick after getting her MBA at Wharton. At ghSMART, she co-leads CEO Genome, a research project and client practice that supports CEOs and executives on their path to the corner office. The research explores paths and behaviors that lead to the top, as well as typical setbacks that CEOs encounter and ways to prevent them.

An edited version of the conversation follows.
Knowledge@Wharton: Before we talk about your research on the CEO Genome Project, how did you get interested in leadership?
Elena Lytkina Botelho: When I was 14 years old, I noticed that lots of people around me were coming to me for advice. That was my first epiphany — that what I love doing in my life is helping people to be successful at whatever they do. I had to send money back home [to Russia] so I became an accountant when I came to the U.S. I went to Wharton. With Wharton, you want to do something really worthy with your time, so I went to work for McKinsey. Then I realized that while I’ve changed, what I’m really passionate about hasn’t changed since I was 14.
My best moments at McKinsey were about sitting across from anybody — it didn’t matter if they were CEOs — feeling that in some way that conversation helped them be more successful. That brought me to ghSMART where we’re really blessed to have a unique job that I never knew existed until I joined the firm. All we do is help leaders be more successful. Then, as I went on that journey, it became clear that while leadership overall is a really big topic, there are a couple of big pivot points. If you can get those decisions right, a lot of things flow from that, which is how we got to the CEO Genome Project.
Knowledge@Wharton: So let’s discuss the CEO Genome Project. What are those couple of pivot points that you mentioned, and what was your purpose in doing what you did?
Botelho: As a firm, we’ve been helping CEOs and helping boards and investors select CEOs since 1995. We’ve always been behind the scenes helping our clients make that decision. What really shocked me was that the CEO that stares at you from the front pages of our well-respected publications and CEOs I get to see up close and personal are just two very different [people]. And coming from a family of mathematicians, whenever something is unsettling I figure we need to get some good data around this. That’s how the CEO Genome Project was born.
It was really a desire to say, well let’s look behind the scenes, let’s understand what drives performance. What do successful CEOs look like up close and personal? And let’s do that not using anecdotes or not over-relying on any kind of particular empirical experience, but really digging into the data and research.
Knowledge@Wharton: And what did the data show?
Botelho: The data was fascinating. We embarked on the research; we weren’t fishing for any particular hypothesis to prove or disprove it. We applied a multitude of analytical approaches. What we found in terms of what didn’t matter surprised us as much as what we found of what did matter. For example, [we found] that the stereotypical, larger-than-life, charismatic CEO who never makes mistakes and is probably the smartest person in the room and rides in and out on a white horse with a perfect, unblemished record only exists in urban legends. And I’ve since come to realize that the only perfect CEOs I know are the ones whom I don’t know.
Any CEO, no matter how illustrious, no matter how successful, when you look back in hindsight, has come into the role not prepared. That’s one thing we’ve learned: We’ve yet to find a board that feels that this individual is a slam dunk. It’s a tough decision, deciding who will get the role. So they look imperfect getting into the role; they look imperfect for much of the role; very few aspects of this big public stereotype prove to matter. If you look at the publicly-available bios of Fortune 500 CEOs, if you didn’t go to the right preschool, let alone the right university, you’re doomed to failure.
It’s interesting, because our data [showed a different picture]. We have the luxury of looking well beyond the Fortune 500. The companies in our dataset, it’s more than 2,000 CEOs and 18,000 executives. It includes folks from Fortune 100 companies to $100 million companies or a 100-person company. We found only 7% of the executives had an Ivy League college education. Eight percent of the executives didn’t graduate from college at all. In the final analysis, their educational pedigree didn’t really impact their performance.
Knowledge@Wharton: Why is that? What is your explanation?
Botelho: Our philosophy is it’s all about the fit to the role. Whether or not someone will succeed in a specific situation depends on the context. It depends on how well that person’s skillsets are matched to what the job requires, much more so than on this theoretical set of perfection competencies.
The other big overarching theme that stared us in the face when we dug into the data is that it’s much more about what you do and what your behaviors are, and the skills and abilities that you develop in your life as opposed to traits that you happen to be born with. Because to a large degree, as much as we would like to believe that great education is available to everyone, having an undergraduate degree from an Ivy League school is as much a signal of access as it is a signal of lots of other things. What we’ve found is that it helps to have a headstart in some areas, but at the end of the day, what really matters is what you do with what you’re given.
Knowledge@Wharton: You identified four specific behaviors that the CEOs who are successful do differently than those who may seem successful on the surface but eventually are not. Can we talk about those four behavioral qualities and see how they make a difference?
Botelho: What surprised us is that we expected that CEOs just make better decisions. By the time they get to the top and when they get selected it must be that they just have this uncanny insight that the rest of us don’t share. What we were shocked to find out is that decisiveness does in fact relate to performance, but it’s actually more frequent that CEOs stand out for the speed of their decision making, not simply the quality.
You may have recently have seen [Amazon CEO] Jeff Bezos’s shareholder letter. It could be a primer on all the four CEO behaviors. On decision making, he specifically talks about the fact that decision making is quality times velocity. He talks about Day Two companies. [These are] companies that probably have been and still are very successful but ultimately not as dynamic, not moving forward, not shaping the industries where they are in. He talks about those Day Two companies as making high-quality decisions but too slowly.
And he sets his aspiration for Amazon to always remain a Day One company, as a company that makes good decisions and makes them very quickly. What we find is that as you look at executives even coming up through the ranks, you can see folks differentiate themselves on decisiveness at different stages in their career. CEOs stand out for being willing to make decisions.
Knowledge@Wharton: Do you think there are any exceptions to that?
Botelho: Yes. Look, if the results of the study were published to CEOs only, then the message probably would be — no. 1, think about which decisions shouldn’t even land on your desk. Very successful CEOs are very careful. A lot of them will tell you that in a given year they will make three to four big decisions. So the first question would be this: Make sure that you don’t have too many decisions because something has got to be wrong with your team if there are too many decisions that you feel that you are the only right person to make.
The second insight for CEOs only would be the right time to make a decision, and the right kind of thoroughness and thoughtfulness on a decision at hand, depending on the type of decision. Certainly, if you’re betting the company, you will be really thoughtful. This study is aimed at being helpful to a really broad audience regardless of their stage in their career. This is where what we really focused on was decisiveness, simply because when we look at what separates those who actually get into the CEO’s shoes and become successful from those who [don’t], it tends to be the speed that’s the [key] factor. So when you are in doubt, if you have a sense in your gut that you know the right way to go, that’s probably the right answer.
Now if you’re a CEO — CEOs do tend to be more decisive — maybe it is very prudent to be thoughtful and make sure that you’re getting different points of view.
Knowledge@Wharton: The second trait that you talked about was that they are relentlessly reliable. Why does that matter?
Botelho: Reliability caused all sorts of debate on our research team, mainly because all of these behaviors seem pretty obvious. Reliability was kind of annoyingly obvious. It was as plain as milk toast. We found ourselves resisting even putting it out there because it was so basic. Yet of the four behaviors, reliability is the only one that is statistically associated with greater likelihood of getting hired. Demonstrating reliability leads you to be more likely to get the job as well as to perform well in it.
Knowledge@Wharton: How can leaders learn to be more reliable?
Botelho: Great question, and I’ll share an anecdote if I may. Lots of folks found this really useful. On our website we have a self-assessment for these behaviors. We had 4,000 folks from all walks of life curious enough to see how they stack up against CEOs and against peer groups. So they took the assessment. Among those was one individual who is a founder and CEO of a major company, one of the most successful in his industry. He took the test and he called one of my partners who had been working with him and said, “This is great, and I’ve excelled in the following areas but it looks like I need to improve on my reliability. Let’s get working at it.”
That caused a really good conversation because clearly even somebody who had been tremendously successful, who is among the absolute best in his field, had a fundamental behavior that he felt he wanted to improve upon. When we think about reliability, it is really about three things: no. 1 is the mindset, no. 2, the people, no. 3, the processes and the cadence and the drumbeat of the company. The good news is that of these three things, there’s only one that the CEO has to carry in his or her own brain.
What we find with CEOs who are highly reliable is that they want to be counted on. They are not simply willing to take responsibility when they see things going off course or when they see opportunities in front of them. They almost have a desperate hunger to be counted on and pull things together. Interestingly, it shows up pretty early in life sometimes.
Let me give you an example. I was assessing a CEO candidate for a board and he shared a story from when he was 16 years old and living in California. His parents had left him on the farm in California alone when a fire broke out. What he did is he led the horses out of the barn, then he took care of the chickens and loaded them in the truck, and then he did a bunch of other things that were aimed to minimize damage. Then he got into the pickup truck, drove 100 miles, and called his parents.
When I think about myself in that situation, I am hoping, back at 16, I would have had the presence of mind to call 911 before my mom, but it would be a toss up. It’s just one of those examples of the mindset of accountability. … Think about the most reliable people in your life. They don’t need to be brilliant leaders. But we all know who they are. That has to come from the CEO because that sets the tone for the whole organization.
For those of us who are disorganized and don’t think of ourselves as terrific managers, there are a lot of other pieces of reliability that you don’t need to do yourself as a CEO. You’ve got to surround yourself with people who have complementary skillsets, and you’ve got to let them do their job. You have to let them build reliability into the company and be willing to be part of that reliability. Then the rest of it is about processes, routines and the cadences. A lot of reliable companies feel a little bit more like a marching band than the improvisation of talented musicians.
Here is another reliability hack that anybody can use. If you were interested in improving your reliability here is something simple. What we also found when we looked at the CEOs up close and personal, the CEOs that were regarded and viewed as highly reliable are masters at setting expectations. Reliability doesn’t start when you start executing. Reliability starts when you walk in and you understand what everybody expects of you, and you align your stakeholders towards expectations that are realistic given what the situation presents you with.


CONTINUES IN PART II

TRAVEL SPECIAL .....Family Vacations Ahoy!


TRAVEL SPECIAL Family Vacations Ahoy!

Try a mix of luxury and comfort on a fun cruise vacation with your family

Look around and you will find many Indian families who have booked their cruise vacations to enjoy a leisurely pace of holidaying. There’s much reason why this trend is fast catching up:

CRUISING LUXURY
Kids and Parents love the cuisine: On cruise vacations, some how dining becomes a daily highlight because the spread is extensive and delicious too. The ambience of a large dining hall where everyone comes in to have a dinner together as one big family, adds to the joy. You also have the flexibility to plan your meal timings.
Outstanding Entertainment: Games, Music and dance and world-class performers provide amazing shows that are great attractions to tune in to, daily.
Keeping the kids happy and occupied: Many cruise liners run tailormade kid programmes for specified age groups and interests. You will be surprised that you kid actually learned to swim on a pool onboard or learn nuances of squash during the vacation itself. Some educational programmes add to the joy of curious minds.
Fitness and Spa: From state-of-the-art centres for fitness, yoga and meditation to the best place to get your spa sessions done, a cruise vacation tends to cater to all. Need more reasons?

COUPLE TIME
GO CRUISING FROM EUROPE TO AMERICA
Region: Transatlantic ports
Here’s your chance to plan a vacation that takes you from Europe to America or vice versa and also touches upon the best highlights. Transatlantic cruises are a big rage, of late. Of course, you need some time on hand.

VISIT LANDMARKS AT DIFFERENT PORTS
Regions: Southampton, England to Boston, Massachusetts to New York City to Orlando (Port Canaveral), Florida to Miami in Florida
Southampton’s history has the best of all, it is linked to kings, novelists and even pilgrims. At this port, as your cruise liner announces anchorage, go ahead on a curated trip to visit the Southampton Maritime Museum, the City Art Gallery and Windsor Castle. After a week or so of cruising and adventure activities onboard, you can visit Boston in Massachusetts. Considered the oldest city in the USA, get geared to get charmed by the colonial heritage as the backdrop. Enjoy the inviting mix of culture and lively street life. See where Revolutionary history took place on a walking tour along Boston’s Freedom Trail.
Next stop is at New York. Everyone onboard would be waiting for this port of call. The city that never sleeps, is one of the most exciting places in the world. Your itinerary can be interesting where you can soak up the nightlife. Visit the many museums, shop in the boutiques of world-renowned designers on Fifth Avenue or of course, take photographs near the famous monument of the Statue of Liberty.
Next stop is Port Canaveral in Orlando, which is the gateway to the Space Coast and the attractions of Central Florida. Take your kids along to visit the Kennedy Space Center. Pack your bikini and swim suits to dive into the gentle waves along the Cocoa Beach or enjoy a fun-filled day at one of Orlando’s world-famous theme parks. Move on to Florida next.
Miami is a fabulous major cosmopolitan city. With its popular celebrity-dotted beaches, unrivaled nightlife and Latin flavour, you know you are in for some merriment here. Ready?

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HEALTH / TEA SPECIAL .......Relax your nerves, mind with chamomile, fennel tea


Relax your nerves, mind with chamomile, fennel tea
Negative emotions like sadness and nervousness can be soothed with a cup of herbal teas. Treat yourself to warm sips of tea made from ingredients like chamomile, fennel, peppermint and rose, suggest experts.
Chamomile is a magical ingredient used in herbal teas. It has been used by mankind since ages. It is used as a remedy for sleep problems and relaxing the blood vessels and smoothen the muscle fibres. It also acts as an anti-bacterial and helps in controlling diabetes.
Peppermint has proven to help in relaxing the muscles. To obtain best results, it should be consumed in the evening before bedtime. It helps people suffering from insomnia. It also contains high level of menthol which helps in relaxing muscles and activates a state of refreshment. People suffering from depression often face sleep deprivation, and that's where peppermint comes to rescue. It is also helpful to aid digestion.
Lemongrass, if consumed regularly in a prescribed quantity, prevents worry and stress from building up. It also contains energy-boosting properties that help in uplifting the mood. Boosting the metabolism is the way forward, this will ensure our blood circulation is normal leading to healthy mind. It is one of the key ingredients to ensure this longer term.
Fennel is one of the most commonly used herb in India which is eaten post dinner or lunch as raw brewed fennel and drinking as an herb is like ingesting it directly. To cure colic problem a stress which leads to depression, fennel is the best option.
Rose tea is also known for fighting depression. It has numerous other benefits as it has vitamin C and antioxidants which give a boosting effect to your body.
— IANS


HAPPINESS / SUCCESS SPECIAL .....How Self-Reflection Gives You a Happier and More Successful Life PART II


How Self-Reflection Gives You a Happier and More Successful Life PART II
TABLE OF CONTENTS
1. What is self-reflection
2. What happens when you don’t reflect
3. The importance of self-reflection
ABOVE COVERED IN PART I
4. How to do self-reflection (a step-by-step guide)
The process of self-reflection                       
What to reflect on
Questions to ask yourself in self-reflection
When to self-reflect
Bonus self-reflection tips
5. Make self-reflection part of your life

4.How to do self-reflection (a step-by-step guide)
Ok, so you understand the benefits and you’re ready to do get started? Here’s how:
The process of self-reflection
This is a simple guide to the process of self-reflection:
  • STOP: Take a step back from life or a particular situation.
  • LOOK: Identify and get perspective on what you notice and see.
  • LISTEN: Listen to your inner guide, the innate wisdom that bubbles up when you give it time and space to emerge.
  • ACT: Identify the steps you need to take moving forward to adjust, change or improve.
What to reflect on
There are two important components for self-reflection.
i. The first is to reflect on YOU.
This includes who you are and what you want for your life. This is the self-awareness piece we talked about earlier.
Many ancient philosophers from Aristotle to Socrates and Pythagoras touted the benefits of “knowing thyself”.
Here are some questions to ‘ponder’ when you reflect on YOU:
  • What are my core values? What are the beliefs, guiding principles or ideas that are deeply important to me? What are my priorities?
  • What are my unique gifts, skills, strengths or talents?
  • What are the weaknesses or blind spots I need to watch out for?
  • Who do I want to be?
  • What energy do I want to bring to everything I do?
  • What is the impact or difference I want to make? How do I want to serve, contribute or add value?
  • What are my passions? What do I love? What gets me engaged, motivated and excited?
  • Are there any beliefs that I have that are limiting me?
  • What do I want for my life? (after all, if you don’t know what you want, how do you expect to get there?)
  • When am I at my best?
ii. The second is to reflect on the areas of your life that are important to you.
This might include your relationships, home and family, career, health and well-being, finances, goals, spirituality and person growth, and fun and recreation.
A great tool that many coaches and those in the personal development space have used for years is called the “The Wheel of Life”. While the original wheel of life dates back to Buddhism, the modern wheel of life was created by Paul Meyer, a pioneer in the life coaching and self-improvement industry.
The purpose of the wheel is to look at areas of your life which are important to you. In each area, you rate yourself on a scale of 1-10. This gives you an idea of where you are in – or out of balance – and what areas you need to pay more attention to. It gives you perspective on the whole of your life.
If you google ‘wheel of life’ you’ll get hundreds of different options to choose from. But here I recommend you the following examples. I prefer to use ones that have YOU or a space for YOU in the middle. I’ve also included a blank template where you can fill in the areas of your life which are most important to you right now.
Questions to ask yourself in self-reflection
Here are some questions to ask yourself in the self-reflection process:
  • How do I feel overall about this area of my life? On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate my levels of satisfaction and success?
  • What’s working? What’s not working?
  • What do I want more of – or less of?
  • What are my accomplishments/wins/successes? (People often default to what’s wrong or hasn’t worked – it’s just as important to focus on what’s going right!)
  • What do I want? What are my hopes or goals?
  • What am I grateful for?
  • How would I improve this area of my life? What actions can I take?
When to self-reflect
The more you can make self-reflection a habit and part of your routine, the greater the impact will be. Below are some ideas to get you started. Identify which ones will work for you. Then grab your calendar or phone and schedule a reminder to make it happen!
  • New years – There’s a reason New Years resolutions became a tradition. It’s a great time to reflect on the year that has passed and identify what you want (your intentions, goals, desires) in the year ahead.
  • Milestones – I have a friend that uses her birthday every year as a time for self-reflection. You can also choose an anniversary, the Spring equinox, a religious holiday or any date that has significance or importance to you.
  • Monthly or weekly – Maybe you’d like to schedule time at the beginning of the month, or choose a day of the week, like Sunday to reflect on the week before.
  • Daily – A daily practice of self-reflection is probably one of the best ways to create a habit. I have many clients that like to get up early and reflect on the day before and the day ahead. Some prefer to journal in the evening before bed.
  • After an ‘event’ – Just had a terrible work meeting? A bad interaction with your kids or spouse? Take a minute to step back and reflect on what happened. Doing this now will help you understand what happened and prevent future incidents similar to this one.
  • When you’re off track – Whenever you feel like you’re off track, unhappy, stressed or demotivated, it’s time to take a step back, reflect and regroup.
Bonus self-reflection tips
Here are some extra tips for you to do self-reflection:
  • Grab a Journal 
– If you don’t have one, head to the store and find one you love. Writing has been proven to facilitate new levels of understanding and significantly reduce levels of stress. Moreover, when you see something, you are able to process it in a different way. And once it’s tangible, you then have a greater ability to tackle it, or let it go.
  • Schedule Time 
– Schedule uninterrupted time where you have space, feel quiet and can focus., whether that be 5 minutes a day or half a day once a quarter. If you think it’s just going to happen, it’s not. You have to do something to make it happen.
  • Accountability 
– Join a group, get a coach, find a buddy, tell your spouse – find someone to do this with. I was talking with a client of mine last week and she said the most valuable part of hiring me was the fact that she had someone she had to report back to weekly. It forced her to do the work that she wouldn’t have done otherwise on her own.
  • Be a fly on the wall 
– When you’re reflecting on something, especially relationships, it’s helpful to take the stance of a neutral observer. When you step back from a situation and view things as if you were a fly on the wall, it’s incredibly insightful. Try this with something in your life you’re having a hard time resolving. Take a step back and view the situation as if you were a fly on the wall, or as if you were watching the entire scene on a movie screen. Notice what you see, hear and feel about what you ‘observe’. It will give you a perspective that you hadn’t seen before!
  • Meditate 
– There are hundreds of studies that show the benefits of meditation. Something powerful happens when you don’t ‘think’ about something. Things bubble up. You have incredible, innate wisdom inside of you and meditation allows it to break through. Again, it’s just a matter of giving time and space to tap into it. 
5.Make self-reflection part of your life
If self-reflection isn’t a regular part of your life right now, this is your wake-up call. It’s time for you to take a step back. Time to hop off the treadmill of life. Time to reflect.
Whichever step you take next is perfect. There’s no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way to do this. It’s only what works for you.
If I’ve learned anything from working with thousands of clients over the years, different things work for different people. There’s no one size fits all approach to self-reflection, just like there’s no one size fits all approach to life
Tracy Kennedy
https://www.lifehack.org/696285/how-self-reflection-gives-you-a-happier-and-more-successful-life?ck_subscriber_id=168781672