Friday, April 22, 2016

PERSONAL FAILURE SPECIAL............. Raise a Toast to Failure

 Raise a Toast to Failure


Instead of hiding our failings, we need to speak openly about failure, even evangelise it

The fear of failure is the biggest im pediment to India being a truly Startup Nation. We have about 5,000 startups a year, but we should be having half a million for a country of our size. And my hypothesis, partly from interacting with many entrepreneurs at all stages and ages of their career, is that most of them sit on the fence as they are afraid to fail.
The truth is that we all fail -not once, not twice but over a hundred times.In business, as in life, failure is a stronger motivation than success.
Unfortunately, in India, we have grown up with failure being considered a stigma.That fear is so strong that the first time we falter or fail, it feels like our last, and that paralysis stops most of us from getting out of the starting gate. Instead, we all need to speak openly about failure, even evangelise it -raise a toast to it as a part of the journey, as a very essential part of daily life and learnings. I have always been intrigued by failure, it fascinates me. I wonder why people ask others about their successes. Why don't they question them on their failures instead, and all of us have had so many. I wonder why people don't embrace failure; instead they insulate themselves against it and make success even more elusive.
How I Stumbled
Like every experienced entrepreneur, I've had my share of failures at every stage. But I lived my life on the conviction that tomorrow will still be there, no matter how dire today feels. This belief got me through many of the lowest moments in my professional life and entrepreneurial career. Failure is never really the end of the road, but your inability to put that behind you and focus on moving forward is.
Looking back on more than two decades of constant engagement with one business endeavour or the other, I see a pattern.India, in general, lacks confidence as a country of entrepreneurs and leaders. Of course, there are exceptions but those are too few. Confidence is built over time. Not all of us with dreams are capable of jumping off the cliff, even when the water is deep. And when we summon up the courage to take the leap, some of us are so petrified by the idea that we forget to breathe once we hit water and simply drown.
My entrepreneurial journey has seen as many failures as high points. But my best learnings and, more importantly, my conviction in myself and the confidence I built over the years came from the failures. When we pioneered Cable TV -way back when television sets did not even have remotes -it seemed like an idea every one would pounce on. After all, it seemed obvious that people would want to watch multiple channels rather than just the state-run Doordarshan. Not quite. A year and more than 3,000 personal, door-to-door visits later, I had no takers, not one sub scriber. It seemed like a failure. That's when conviction comes to the fore. We stayed the course, knowing we could turn this around -and we even tually did.
Many years later, we forayed into Home Shopping -via TV way before ecommerce was part of the vocabulary. We knew the challenges: India was not ready to shop without touching and feeling the products; credit card penetration was abys mal; home delivery was a logistical nightmare; but we went ahead regardless. It was clearly a business before its time and a high-profile failure for me, but it taught me ways of seeing and dissecting the ecosystem like never before.
When we launched our movie studio, five of our first eight movies were flops, some complete disasters. By any standards, it was a failure.
Most leaders, executives and founders would have run for the exit door with such a public drubbing, but again we held on -with a mindset that we had no other choice. We looked at each flops as a setback: our resilience only grew and our conviction in ourselves became stronger.
Road to Recovery
Failure means something different for everyone. But if you want to succeed, failure can never be an endpoint. Be clear about what failure means to you. Stop thinking that failure is a roadblock. Dealing with the inevitability of failure should be cathartic, not crushing. Even the way you think of failure and the language you use to describe it makes all the difference. Take the stigma out of the word. Think of failures as just setbacks. And when you experience a setback, you reconsider, recalibrate and rebound. What's worked for me over the years is this: recalibrating and considering my worst-case scenarios, gauging my ability to cope and working on viable solutions without panicking. Once you can do that, you're already on the road to recovery.
Ninety-nine percent of us feel we are unequal to a task at some point in our lives, that others are better off than us. Leadership or entrepreneurship provokes us to confront and conquer that myth, overcome our fear of failure and welcome it, with open arms, into our lives.
Ronnie Screwvala

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